If the date feels like a hook-up, that’s probably what he’s seeking.

To be sure you don’t give the wrong impression, “set a date for the future, and make it the right time of day and place so the intention of getting to know each other is there in the beginning,” recommends Ian Kerner, Ph.

“Tom is really being so supportive and telling her to be calm,” a source told Us at the time.

The pair eventually returned to Los Angeles on July 22 and were last spotted dining at Santa Monica’s Hillstone restaurant on July 28.

Indeed, though the two were hot and heavy early on, things became strained when Hiddleston went to Australia to film Thor: Ragnarok and Swift stayed stateside.

As Us previously reported, they had their first blowout fight in August.

“They were all over each other — hugging and kissing — even though there were 20 people coming and going on the beach,” an eyewitness said at the time.

"They looked like any young couple madly in love without a care in the world."After meeting each other’s parents, the duo then jetted off to Rome and Australia, where Swift sought support from Hiddleston after getting attacked by Kim Kardashian and Kanye West.

I don’t know how old you are and how much dating experience you have, which factors into the picture.Swift, 26, moved on with the British hunk, 35, just two weeks after breaking up with ex-boyfriend Calvin Harris in June.(The Scottish DJ, 32, has since been hanging out with Mexican actress-singer Eiza González.)Hiddleston and Swift first flirted at the 2016 Met Gala in May, then shocked the internet when they were spotted kissing on a beach in Rhode Island in June.You’re left wondering what went wrong and analyzing (and reanalyzing and reanalyzing) things with your friends. While we’ll never be able to fully understand guys (and we probably wouldn’t want to), you can learn from these moments.We found 10 women in your situation and asked experts to give their insights on what happened so you can dodge future dating disasters.