He needed extra time with his hairdo, and while he fussed I told him little tales from my own girlhood, about different exciting first tries of grown-up things like bras and lipstick, about prepping for dates, things like that, so he could share my girlhood, not having had one of his own.We had a lovely time, chatting together like two girls (or perhaps one girl and one crossdressing sissy) anywhere about almost everything.The former are straightforward while the latter beat around the bush. They want their partners to do their share of first moves as well. Don’t get easily jealous with the time he spends with his friends.This unlikeness causes serious arguments and worse, it makes some wives say, “My husband wants a divorce.” Refrain from making long introductions or from letting him read between the lines always. If you do, it sends him the message that you’re controlling his life.
Ihoped so, because that would give his new life legitimacy in hisown eyes.Today, the message could be from work (who consider it fine to email at weekends and late at night), your bank confirming a new payment or a flirty text from a work colleague.In effect, the old boundaries have fallen away and anybody can come into your house – metaphorically – at any time and you’re going to be none the wiser if your partner is text cheating.Before I start, I want to be very clear as to why I believed these lies.I swallowed them hook, line, and sinker because the idol of my heart was my husband and not God.