It takes time to get to know someone, and honestly most women don’t know themselves very well either.
Being thoughtful means you’ve spent time looking back on your life and at what worked and what didn’t in your relationships.
Also given how many closets most gay women live with, only a miniscule percentage ever really come out.
Magazines and websites don’t run out of that sort of stuff.By Tappy Tippy It’s a minefield— when you are dating someone of the same sex.And especially if the sex happens to be the fairer one! You deal with the same issues— shopping, PMS, body-weight issues, gossip and then the sulks, mood swings, tantrums and the joy. Here are my rules to make your way through the Indian lesbian dating scene…Rule No 1: You are hot property but act fast Yes, you are hot property!How do you talk to another girl if you are shy and perhaps inexperienced in the lezzer dating world? The first thing to understand is that we tend to be a threat to men. Finally, don’t say, “I like you, but I’m not sure I am a lesbian” – she will be offended. It is great being a lesbian, and even better when you have others in your life to keep reminding you so.If you do go on a date with a woman, unless you are in a lesbian bar, it is likely that some bloke will see two women having a warm conversation and you will be asked – “What are you lovely ladies doing all on your own? You will politely remind him that it is not possible for two people chatting together to be ‘on their own’, and soon you will have changed from ‘lovely ladies’ to ‘bloody rug munchers’. One of the great things about being a lesbian is not having to focus most of your conversations on men – Bridget Jones style.