Assuming you’re still in the early stages of your relationship, this is a delicate situation.
You don’t want to come off as demanding and pushy, but you don’t want anything happening behind your back either.
In conversation: Perhaps at this stage in your relationship you’ve begun talking about exclusivity and the direction of the relationship and your S. casually reveals he hasn’t stopped looking at other people’s profiles. It’s not taboo to research the person you’re dating – even after you initially scoped them out.
Finding out your partner is still on a dating site can potentially be as simple as taking that first step to search online and potentially discovering secret profiles. Nothing is more important than communicating with your boyfriend about the situation.
These are a few common scenarios: A friend: Your friend who’s active on dating sites came across your boyfriend’s profile and told you about it.
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After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?
When you find out your partner is still on a dating site, you may begin to wonder if he is cheating, has a fear of missing out (FOMO), or, just isn’t that into you. Never good news to discover, but it must have come from somewhere.
Avoid demanding he takes down his profile, as making demands can make someone defensive.
I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).