I'm always hesitant to sign up for a dating site that doesn't allow me to read all the fine print prior to joining, and XPress sadly fits the bill.
When they find someone, they send you a note, and you can either flirt with, or contact the other person directly without ever divulging your personal information or cell number.
I live in Canada however, and had no issue signing up - but only found two folks within a 50-mile radius, and no one within a 25-mile radius. Otherwise, anyone can sign up for Meet Moi without paying any fees.
Creating a profile, searching others nearby using whatever criteria you'd like, and chatting are all free, but if you'd like to connect further, you'll have to pay.
However, once I finished filling out my profile, I could choose whether I was looking for gents or gals in my search preferences, but I still couldn't change my profile.
A basic, unpaid membership allows members to create a profile, upload photos, perform basic searches for other members, "smile" at the members you're interested in, send a "spark" (pre-determined list of questions you can choose from to send to other members), and send cards.