Well, let me give you a few, 30 to be exact; dead give-aways you are dating a Narcissist.If he is what he says he is, it will show over time and he won’t mind waiting.He will reveal a few of his indiscretions and weaknesses so you feel safe being open and honest with him.He wants to get to know you alright, just not for the reason you think.We have all ended up feeling hurt, abused, abandoned, and misled by those same people who we trusted and loved, ignoring warning signs that could have helped us avoid our insurmountable heartache.Red flags are violations of proper dating etiquette and standards. Have you only been dating for a short period of time and they are already telling you they hate your life-long friends? Have they already been encouraging you to move in with them, or worse yet, move out from where you’re currently living with family, friends, or your own apartment to a place they feel will be more fitting, alone?
Do not move in because you don’t want to lose him, if he is as sweet as he pretends to be waiting will not be a problem. The biggest number one without fail sign of a narcissist is how they sweep you off your feet at the beginning of the relationship.How many red flags do you need in order to run away and save yourself? Time will tell, his mask will drop, that is why he is pushing for commitment, he wants to hook you before you see the real person under the facade. By themselves they don’t scream “Run for cover” , especially if you have no experience with a narcissist, but if you have half a dozen of these red flags you need to run away as fast as you can and if you can’t bring yourself to dump him because you think he is an exception to the rule and you don’t believe me; at least slow things down.You, my friend, are dating a control freak, and you should run as fast as you can!Control freaks don’t really love you or accept you the way you are.