Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.
There are a few different things that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out "my ex is dating my friend! Here was a woman who I thought was my good girlfriend.
So, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. I hope you understand that we don't want to hurt you.
Ex boyfriend and I have started dating again, but we are both taking it slowly and still seeing other people.
Your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, NOT YOU! Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger.
They believe this is something everybody knows, that they're just following the rules.If you constantly bring up too many inside jokes or past shared experiences, he might think you're still dwelling on him.Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.He initiated the breakup, but also initiated contacting me again about a month ago.Admittedly we both had faults when we were boyfriend / girlfriend. We both agree what went wrong and dating this time around has been great.